A friend came to me with a situation and asked for my opinion....
Here is the situation:
A guy who is in a relationship with a girl, let us named her G...then he befriended with another girl named H. Time passed and he got closer to H, although he was in a serious relationship with G. He and H shared a lot of stuffs + secrets. They have mutual understanding and good chemistry between them. Suddenly, without his awareness, the feeling blossomed into love.
When he realized of his own feeling, he got confused. He does not know whether to continue with his relationship with G, or getting into relationship with H. And another thing which makes his confused that H was no longer a virgin. She slept with 4-5 men before. On the other hand, G is a virgin.
And my opinion was:
The guy have to know that whatever he decide to choose will affect his life. People who got tto choose between good and bad, usually will go for the good one. But there are also who go for the bad one. because people are indeed different. Therefore, whatever choices he make, he must be ready to face the consequences. Think wisely and do not follow his heart because heart and feelings indeed can change.
I pray the best for him.
Wednesday, July 15, 2009
Monday, July 13, 2009
Square One
Wherever you are in this world or no matter how far you go, you will always back to the One and only Lord, the Most Gracious and Merciful...
He is the One who will always be us, no matter what.
Although most of the time, we tend to forget Our creator, He will never ever forget us. Although we ran as far as we could away from Him, He will never ever leave us. because He is Our Lord. He would never abandon us because He is the Most Merciful. If our sins are as wide as the sea, He will forgive us, as long as we are truthful and sincere. Just look on how merciful our Lord is. He still gives oxygen and the ability to live to those who disbelieve Him.
Ponder and think. We will find Him. InsyaAllah.
He is the One who will always be us, no matter what.
Although most of the time, we tend to forget Our creator, He will never ever forget us. Although we ran as far as we could away from Him, He will never ever leave us. because He is Our Lord. He would never abandon us because He is the Most Merciful. If our sins are as wide as the sea, He will forgive us, as long as we are truthful and sincere. Just look on how merciful our Lord is. He still gives oxygen and the ability to live to those who disbelieve Him.
Ponder and think. We will find Him. InsyaAllah.
Tuesday, July 7, 2009
TriaLs
*Sick*
*Lost*
*Alone*
*Broken-heaRted*
*Back-Stabbed*
*Bankrupt*
And when all these happened, there will always be the One Who will stay with you forever...HE is The ONE...
Thursday, July 2, 2009
Grateful
Some may want things that they could not get, but some may do not want things that they already have...is it so hard to be grateful?
And yes, sometimes I find that it is hard. because I am also like that.
I do not like to have many attention. Today, I went out with my girlfrenz and I informed my mom that I'm gonna be back a little bit late, around 9-10 pm. Then she asked me a lot of questions: why..with who..etc... I was pissed off for a while. But then I realized something. There were people who did not get like what I got right now. Some are cRAVe for attention that they are willing to do anything, in order to get attention from people..and yet myself, are not grateful enough for the attention that I got. Hmmm...
Then, I keep telling myself...those attention showed that they care for you...and yes, they really care for me to the extend that sometimes I am sick of it...
Welcome to my Life, peeps =)
And yes, sometimes I find that it is hard. because I am also like that.
I do not like to have many attention. Today, I went out with my girlfrenz and I informed my mom that I'm gonna be back a little bit late, around 9-10 pm. Then she asked me a lot of questions: why..with who..etc... I was pissed off for a while. But then I realized something. There were people who did not get like what I got right now. Some are cRAVe for attention that they are willing to do anything, in order to get attention from people..and yet myself, are not grateful enough for the attention that I got. Hmmm...
Then, I keep telling myself...those attention showed that they care for you...and yes, they really care for me to the extend that sometimes I am sick of it...
Welcome to my Life, peeps =)
Tuesday, June 30, 2009
Rooftop Rant
Recently I read this book and I'm in lurve with it. hehehe
The synopsis: Story about 2 human being searching for themselves. A girl came from rich family but lack of attention and love from her family. And a boy who came from an average family but were hold back from chasing his dream. And on a rooftop, they were met. Shared and changed things in their lives without they realize it.
My favorite snip from the book:
Trisy's 10 Line Spillage:
1. It's much easier to spill to a stranger, spares the stigma and the judgment. (TRUE!)
2. It's much easier to be understood by someone who has been there and does that. (INDEED IT IS TRUE!)
3. Everybody has skeletons in their closet. (ASK URSELF K...)
4. I don't say "take a bit from my plate, chew, telan then talk" for no reason.
5. Reality hurts, truth bites, living kills, today tortures and yesterdays are just as bad, what else's new? The only comfort is knowing we're proudly smart enough to live life the way we want it, though others will never fail to try to screw it for us, we prove them wrong. Again and again. (YEAH>>>THAT'S WHY IT IS CALLED STRUGGLE)
6. A friend can be a good psychologist, but sometimes I doubt it vise versa.
7. Psychiatrist + docs + meds = bittersweet vendetta. (LOL)
8. There are times when we want to be vulnerable though how thick skinned we appear.
9. Believing in God's love, live on bcause of His Love, nothing can beat that, I know you'd agree. (TOTALLY!)
10. They have no idea what I understand from the word 'mirror'. Because I hate what I see looking back at me.
Great isn't it?
The synopsis: Story about 2 human being searching for themselves. A girl came from rich family but lack of attention and love from her family. And a boy who came from an average family but were hold back from chasing his dream. And on a rooftop, they were met. Shared and changed things in their lives without they realize it.
My favorite snip from the book:
Trisy's 10 Line Spillage:
1. It's much easier to spill to a stranger, spares the stigma and the judgment. (TRUE!)
2. It's much easier to be understood by someone who has been there and does that. (INDEED IT IS TRUE!)
3. Everybody has skeletons in their closet. (ASK URSELF K...)
4. I don't say "take a bit from my plate, chew, telan then talk" for no reason.
5. Reality hurts, truth bites, living kills, today tortures and yesterdays are just as bad, what else's new? The only comfort is knowing we're proudly smart enough to live life the way we want it, though others will never fail to try to screw it for us, we prove them wrong. Again and again. (YEAH>>>THAT'S WHY IT IS CALLED STRUGGLE)
6. A friend can be a good psychologist, but sometimes I doubt it vise versa.
7. Psychiatrist + docs + meds = bittersweet vendetta. (LOL)
8. There are times when we want to be vulnerable though how thick skinned we appear.
9. Believing in God's love, live on bcause of His Love, nothing can beat that, I know you'd agree. (TOTALLY!)
10. They have no idea what I understand from the word 'mirror'. Because I hate what I see looking back at me.
Great isn't it?
Monday, June 29, 2009
RizQ
When one doors closed, another door will open for you....that is rizQ...
This morning, I received an sms from IIUM...stating about a job offer...I called them back and got to know that they want it as soon as possible....
I was like...WTH...so I just pass it...
They want it quick and I was having my holidays in S'pore + teaching my aunt + attending some weddings...and why in the world should I go back to IIUM? just for the matter of this job? It is not worth at all...
After the conversation, I called W...just to share with him the story...
At first, he was surprised to receive call from me...It was unexpected...hehe
Then I shared with him about the job offer...and he said: "Alah fadiah...ko keja dgn aku sudah..."
Hahaha...I had a great laugh with him. Did not talk much. He was too excited to get a chance to talk with me. hehe.
Well, it seems that it is going to be hard for me to leave him...Haiz...
This morning, I received an sms from IIUM...stating about a job offer...I called them back and got to know that they want it as soon as possible....
I was like...WTH...so I just pass it...
They want it quick and I was having my holidays in S'pore + teaching my aunt + attending some weddings...and why in the world should I go back to IIUM? just for the matter of this job? It is not worth at all...
After the conversation, I called W...just to share with him the story...
At first, he was surprised to receive call from me...It was unexpected...hehe
Then I shared with him about the job offer...and he said: "Alah fadiah...ko keja dgn aku sudah..."
Hahaha...I had a great laugh with him. Did not talk much. He was too excited to get a chance to talk with me. hehe.
Well, it seems that it is going to be hard for me to leave him...Haiz...
Friday, June 26, 2009
C. H. O. I. C. E. S.
To live hell or live well ----> You choose.
In life, most of the things that appeared to us involved choices. And in making choices, it is important for us to choose wisely.
I have made some wrong choices, therefore I decided from this very moment, I'm going to try make some good and wise choices. InsyaAllah....
Last few days, I have been busy teaching Qur'anic recitation with my aunty...She was amazing, MasyaAllah... At first, I thought that her Qur'anic recitation skill is weak...but then, I discovered that her reading was quite good...only her pronunciation and speed need to be improved.
Besides teaching. I also got the opportunity to meet with my old2 frens. They are still doing well and standing strong. MasyaAllah....unlike me, who always faced with doubts and confusion. The chance to meet with them is such a blessing for me. If I did not meet them, I would not realize something....and now, thanks to Allah for all His blessings and wills.
I realized that I have lost something that is so valuable to me ----> the blessings of Allah and fear towards Him.
I do not want to sound like a pious person, however this is the fact that I faced. No one, but me.
I was too busy in finding the perfect man for me, thus I forgot to seek help from Him. HE always there for me. Waiting for me to find Him. However, I am too arrogant and proud of myself. I forgot everything about Him, whereas He never ever forget me.
And whenever I got to know with someone, I forgot to thank Him. I based all the results on my actions and effort....and indeed, when the effort is empty, so will the result be.
From now on, I will try my best to be a good muslimah. InsyaAllah.
I do not want to get something which I want, but I want things that I NEED. Allah knows what best for me. So I will rest my future in His hand. but this does not mean that I gave up on trying. NO. I will try, strive, struggle and grab for the best. I wanted to GIVE more and more. Because that is what life is all about.
and one of the important choices which I made today: not to get involved with Guys anymore. Friends = yes. More than friends = NO.
You may find me boring. Sued me. but I am not gonna move as that is my decision. If there is someone out there for me, he will appear one day. I believed that. InsyaAllah.
One more thing, I have to build a wall between me and W. It is for my own good. So the construction will begin next semester. Hopefully.
Ok la...I gotta go to bed coz I have to get up at 230. Going to the airport, to send off my cousin.
and...yeah. A recent news stated today that the king of POP, Michael Jackson, have his eternal sleep forever, or in another word, he died..hehe
Well, seems like people keep going to meet with the Lord...and I am still waiting for my time.
May Allah bless YOu!
In life, most of the things that appeared to us involved choices. And in making choices, it is important for us to choose wisely.
I have made some wrong choices, therefore I decided from this very moment, I'm going to try make some good and wise choices. InsyaAllah....
Last few days, I have been busy teaching Qur'anic recitation with my aunty...She was amazing, MasyaAllah... At first, I thought that her Qur'anic recitation skill is weak...but then, I discovered that her reading was quite good...only her pronunciation and speed need to be improved.
Besides teaching. I also got the opportunity to meet with my old2 frens. They are still doing well and standing strong. MasyaAllah....unlike me, who always faced with doubts and confusion. The chance to meet with them is such a blessing for me. If I did not meet them, I would not realize something....and now, thanks to Allah for all His blessings and wills.
I realized that I have lost something that is so valuable to me ----> the blessings of Allah and fear towards Him.
I do not want to sound like a pious person, however this is the fact that I faced. No one, but me.
I was too busy in finding the perfect man for me, thus I forgot to seek help from Him. HE always there for me. Waiting for me to find Him. However, I am too arrogant and proud of myself. I forgot everything about Him, whereas He never ever forget me.
And whenever I got to know with someone, I forgot to thank Him. I based all the results on my actions and effort....and indeed, when the effort is empty, so will the result be.
From now on, I will try my best to be a good muslimah. InsyaAllah.
I do not want to get something which I want, but I want things that I NEED. Allah knows what best for me. So I will rest my future in His hand. but this does not mean that I gave up on trying. NO. I will try, strive, struggle and grab for the best. I wanted to GIVE more and more. Because that is what life is all about.
and one of the important choices which I made today: not to get involved with Guys anymore. Friends = yes. More than friends = NO.
You may find me boring. Sued me. but I am not gonna move as that is my decision. If there is someone out there for me, he will appear one day. I believed that. InsyaAllah.
One more thing, I have to build a wall between me and W. It is for my own good. So the construction will begin next semester. Hopefully.
Ok la...I gotta go to bed coz I have to get up at 230. Going to the airport, to send off my cousin.
and...yeah. A recent news stated today that the king of POP, Michael Jackson, have his eternal sleep forever, or in another word, he died..hehe
Well, seems like people keep going to meet with the Lord...and I am still waiting for my time.
May Allah bless YOu!
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