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So your friend just got dumped, and you dont know how to cheer them up, follow these instructions to make a break up survival kit and make your friend smile soon enough :) If you have an open mind, and a friend who could use some cheering up continue at your own risk.
Warning: May not work with everyone.
Things You'll Need:
- Container
- note paper
- fun pictures (Of you&Friend)
- Lots of time to tell old stories
- Music to make a break up cd
- Step 1
Think about fun times you have had with you friend and dig out the old pictures of you two, get them thinking about those things instead of the "Dumpee"
- Step 2
Design a burned cd of good songs for getting over someone such as survivor, fighter, etc. Make a note telling her how much they mean to you, and stick some copies of pictures in there, along with anything else that you think they would like (CHOCOLATE FOR GIRLS)
- Step 3
Put everything in the container, deliver it to your friend, and take her out for something fun to do.
+How to Get the Right Kind of Guy+
This really isn't very difficult, it's just a lot of girls miss certain ways in approaching this. There are definitely good guys out there. I always hear girls tell me how there's just not any good guys left. They seem to think that all guys are the same. I say to myself, I bet you anything it's the fact they keep falling for the same type of guys. Well no wonder, if you keep going for the same type, you'll continue to get the same results. Do you ever wonder why there are truly happy couples, or girls who seem to be able to get the good ones? The secret is very simple, an open mind. They don't continue to date the same type of guys, so they don't always end up disappointed. They change it up, they learn from previous mistakes. They learn to sense out the bad ones, the liars, the fakes, or mistakes.
I never understand when a girl complains about how guys are all bad, but then she lists of a million different preferences they must have. Well, no wonder those type continue to get let down and heart broken. It won't change too, unless you start to change your approach, and widen your range. Throw preferences out the window, they mean nothing at all. The ones who makes preferences, and refuse to break them, are the ones who will have a lot of lonely nights. I'm not trying to be brutal, but it's true. When you narrow your list, you're just setting yourself up for disaster. You narrow out the bad ones, once you've discovered them. You always keep an open mind at first, though. If you at least throw out preferences, have an open mind, you'll do well. There's more to it though, so I'll explain it to you.
- Step 1
Dressing casual. I know this may seem silly, but don't dress up so much. Be casual, because if you show a lot of cleavage, you'll definitely attract the wrong kind of attention. It's better to be subtle as a woman, than to stand out. Not that I understand what it's like to be one, I sure don't. I know what it's like to be a guy, though. I know exactly how they think, and act. They see a girl wearing a very tight shirt, or a very short skirt, their mind goes one way.
- Step 2
Develop real communication. When you're searching for guy who can be real, and not another disappointment, you're looking for communication. A guy who can honestly have a deep, meaningful, and insightful conversation on plenty of different topics. It shouldn't be forced either. If you feel it has to be, then I'm not sure that this guy has true intentions. It needs to come natural, and of course be genuine in his actions. Deep and meaningful conversations that have to do with themselves should be a turn off. That means they are self involved. If they can have deep conversations about different topics, that's a very good thing. This is a must, because there's plenty of guys who can't communicate. That should tell you how simple minded they are. Which can obviously lead to so much disappointment down the road. No effective communication, no interest should be your motto. Communicating isn't always about words, just so you know. Sometimes having effective communication can come by just actually listening. You can't communicate, if you can't listen.
- Step 3
Take things slowly. When girls are feeling a guy out, too many of them jump into a situation too soon. Do not do this, slow it down. Do this on purpose, you're going to have to play a little game here. You can go out on a date, things of that nature. Do not speed things up, even if you really want to. You got to be careful with a guy, they're very dangerous. They know how to say the right things(read the next step), and they can figure out ways to push your buttons the right way. Guys can be great manipulators, and you have to be careful about that. It's important to not let first impressions overwhelm you. There's also another side to a person, there always is, so you really need to take things slowly. The good guys will be willing to wait, if they're intentions are serious, the bad ones will get too impatient and run off. That's not a bad thing, because it tells you they might not be what you were looking for. You might be a little disappointed, but it will save you a lot of heart ache down the road.
- Step 4
Don't get caught up in their sweet words and charming ways. This is the biggest mistake girls make. They get swept up by a persons words, or charm. In fact, I'd avoid these type all together. They're trouble and it's usually going to end with you getting hurt. When a guy is going out of their way to charm you, it's not a positive thing. Now if they're charming you in just a natural way, that's different. You as a girl, should be able to tell when a guy is putting on a charm act really hard. If they are going out of their way to do this, I think you should back off quite a bit. Remember this, when the charm wears off, which it always does, you got to figure out if this person is someone who is true, and that you would really want to spend time with. Don't let charm suck you in, that happens too often. The one-liners, you should tell them to just take a hike. They're intentions are always phony.
- Step 5
Take notice of the ones that show a sensitive side. Who said a guy can't be sensitive? You got to get to know them to see it, though. I think it's very important to figure this out in a guy, and that is emotion. The ones who hide their true feelings, emotions, can lead to a lot of disappointment down the road. Lack of communication leads to the high divorce rate in this country. The ones who truly do not worry about showing this, it's a very positive sign. A guy who can truly be willing to show off their sensitive side, their faults, and not show off their macho side. Anytime a guy shows off their macho side, they're too insecure. Being insecure can lead to trouble as well That insecurity in them, can be then directed at you. Everyone has some insecurity, but you want to avoid the ones that are extremely insecure. I've known guys who've tried to show a sensitive side on purpose, so be careful. If they tell you they cried watching some chick flick movie, do not pay attention to something like. They might be telling the truth, but that's not what I'm talking about. It really does mean much, either. I'm talking more about when a guy can talk about a serious subject, and show a sensitive side to him that is genuine. You should be looking for a guy who is not afraid to be honest with himself and everything around him. Someone who can tell it like it is. Whether it's good, bad, or ugly. True honesty, along with sensibility is what you want. If you're loving everything he's telling you, then you should evaluate that more closely. No one loves everything that someone says. If he's acting a little bit too perfect, then he could be running a game on you.
- Step 6
Ask around about him. Figure out the reputation that they have. Not a bad idea, is getting a feeling on what they're like. I don't know if I'd go to any ex girlfriends, because they can obviously put them down and exaggerate a bit. No one is perfect, I'm sure this person has probably made mistakes. There will never be a guarantee on not getting hurt, even if he is a good guy. There's never any guarantees, but it's a good idea to figure out what kind of reputation that he carries.
- Step 7
Look for humble qualities, not arrogant ones. Know the difference. A guy that acts arrogant, and treats others bad, is definitely one you don't want. Anytime a guy tries to show off a lot, or brag, these are obviously bad signs. You want someone confident, but at the same time not someone who acts like they're better than everyone. Humble qualities count. Basically you need to look for loyalty in the way he evaluates others. The way he interacts with people, not just you. Humble parts is what you should find from a guy.
Sometimes things can get you down and you need a little pick-me-up! It can be hard to get back to your same, cheerful self, but it's not impossible... Let's get started.
- Step 1
Think of something funny. When you’re tired, depressed, or sad it often helps to think of something funny that happened to you or someone you know. More often than not, if it’s something that is really funny it will instantly cause you to laugh and force a smile on your face.
- Step 2
Think about all the things you have to be thankful for and write them down. After you’ve exhausted all your thoughts, stop for a moment and study the list. Realize how blessed you are and how thankful you should be.
- Step 3
Think about how much God loves you and how He’ll always be there for you no matter what. Just knowing you’re not alone can lift your spirits. Not to mention, that you’ll find no better best friend than the man upstairs!
- Step 4
Look at a picture of someone else smiling or someone smiling on TV and imagine that they are smiling directly at you. As humans we usually mirror the same emotions that we see in front of us so seeing someone else smiling (and even more so pretending that they are smiling at you) can make you smile as well.
- Step 5
Have good hygiene so that you have no excuse for not smiling. Brush your teeth, floss, whiten your teeth, get braces, get dentures, whatever you need to do to feel like you have beautiful teeth. You’ll be far more likely to flash your pearly whites if you think that you have a nice smile.
- Step 6
If you feel like you don’t have a nice smile then either practice changing it or learn how to embrace it. You should feel comfortable with your appearance and not afraid to show yourself off. If you want to practice changing it then study your smile in the mirror or take pictures of it and then practice how you would like your smile to be. Truthfully though, I’m sure you have a nice smile even if you don’t think it looks good. A true, genuine smile isn’t something that can be thought up in advance and practiced so the easiest route here would be to learn to embrace your flaws and love yourself because you don’t have to feel or look like everyone else.
- Step 7
Often the most underutilized and most effective way of getting yourself in a ‘smiling mood’ is to stretch your jaw muscles. Open your mouth really wide and move your cheeks and lips all around until you feel your face muscles start to relax and feel less tight. You’ll notice after you do these stretches that it seems so much easier to crack a smile!
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I try to keep these steps in mind whenever life gets tough in any and all ways. It gets my head back into what I'm doing and keeps me positive. Life is always going to have its tough moments but if you learn how to handle it then your ready for it and even embrace those difficult life lessons.
Things You'll Need:
- Take these 10 steps and write them down to keep with you whenever you need to refer to them!
- Step 1
Know thyself~ Know who you are and what you need in life. Be honest and true to these things. What you need and deserve are things of great value to you and what you should live your life by.
- Step 2
Live a great life. If you aren't, think about how you could be and start taking steps towards that goal. Ask yourself "Why shouldn't I be living a great life?" What is preventing me right now?"
- Step 3
Self esteem comes from knowing that you matter! Don't ever forget that.
- Step 4
Suffering gives way to great faith and hope. Without suffering you would never learn how to have strong faith and the hope that there is light at the end of the tunnel so to speak. Having faith breeds hope inside you!
- Step 5
What are you waiting for? Even baby steps are steps in the right direction! Start now!
- Step 6
Don't ignore your gut instinct. God gave it to us for a reason and it is a gift! Don't turn your back on it no matter how tough it might be to listen to it. Your gut instinct always steers you in the right direction. Don't make an excuse why you can't listen to it!
- Step 7
Do unto others. There is no excuse out there that gives you the right not to. You will live a better life rising about and not giving into hate and evil.
- Step 8
Relax and let yourself grow. Be patient. You'll learn something new each day if you look for it!
- Step 9
Don't be defeated! Never give up! Don't listen to people who beat you down. Nurture your fighting spirit.
- Step 10
Life is not meant to be problem free. Ask God "What am I supposed to learn from this difficult moment?" and the answers will come! You'll get better at coping if you implement this question into how you react each time.
Smooth, suave, debonair. Is your guy just cool or is he a bonafide snake. Here are tips to help you to know if your guy is a snake.
- Step 1
HIs words speak louder than his actions. He talks a real good game, but that is all it is. Promises, whether to take you out or purchase a special gift for you, all go by the wayside with this guy.
- Step 2
He has LOTS of women friends. They are all there ready and willing to give him advice, "help" him whenever he needs a "female" perspective or possible date. The problem is, all the women are competing (without knowing it) to be "the one". This guy always tells you that these women are just "his friends", but if they knew about the other women...
- Step 3
He's a flashy dresser and/or likes to be called "Big Daddy" (as if you even needed another"daddy"). He's just looking for attention. By trying to win your affections, he puts another notch on his belt when he does. This one collects women until he finds "the one". Problem is it's hard to see the forest through the trees (or as Eva Mendes' character says in the movie "Hitch" - the forest through the sleaze.
- Watch out for this one, if you're not careful, you'll be sucked in.
- Chances are this guy's looking for a lover, not love.
- If you feel dirty after talking to him, chances are you've found one.
So...how was it? Interesting right? What are you waiting for?
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