Wednesday, July 15, 2009

Choices again....

A friend came to me with a situation and asked for my opinion....

Here is the situation:

A guy who is in a relationship with a girl, let us named her G...then he befriended with another girl named H. Time passed and he got closer to H, although he was in a serious relationship with G. He and H shared a lot of stuffs + secrets. They have mutual understanding and good chemistry between them. Suddenly, without his awareness, the feeling blossomed into love.

When he realized of his own feeling, he got confused. He does not know whether to continue with his relationship with G, or getting into relationship with H. And another thing which makes his confused that H was no longer a virgin. She slept with 4-5 men before. On the other hand, G is a virgin.

And my opinion was:

The guy have to know that whatever he decide to choose will affect his life. People who got tto choose between good and bad, usually will go for the good one. But there are also who go for the bad one. because people are indeed different. Therefore, whatever choices he make, he must be ready to face the consequences. Think wisely and do not follow his heart because heart and feelings indeed can change.

I pray the best for him.

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